Welcome to Kendra's FAQ Page....




Howdy Y'all....( in my best Texas "twang" )...LOL...Over the years that this page has been up...I've been asked by "dozens"....( well maybe a bit more than that ) of people, GG's, Admirers and Suitors alike...LOL who want to know a bit more about Kendra....Where did she come from??? How did she come up with her name, her look, and just came to "be"....Well...I finally decided to finally put "pen to paper"...( Or fingers to keyboard is more appropriate ) some of the most frequently asked questions, and a bit of history on...... ME!!!...LOL


Ok...There have been some questions asked of me over the years by men and women who have visited this home page...I can give some answers here to the most common questions...Ok???


Question 1.... How long have you been "Kendra"???? Well...I have to say, all my life...I have memories as early as 6 years old feeling something "different"....I remember having a GG neighbor my age...We used to play together like most kids our age did...One day my dad brought home for me a "GI Joe"...and I thought that was so neat...I took it outside with me to show my friend...She thought it would be neat to play "house" with my GI Joe and her Barbie....She brought out her Barbie and I was mesmerized...We played for a little while and then I asked if I could play the "wife" with Barbie and she was the husband with GI Joe..She agreed and I was in heaven..
It was around that time that I discovered the "urge" ( for the lack of a better word ) I had in getting into my moms things...I was a "latch key" kid since both parents worked, so I was home by myself till my dad came home.... ( Mom worked late hours )...I remember there were times when I would go into my parents room and rummage through moms things...( yes, stockings and bras and slips and things )...I remember feeling so good when I'd put on a slip of hers ...but at the same time, I was scared to death that I would "get caught"..( more on that later )..I remember putting on a slip, and RUNNING to the front window to peek through to see if Dad was home...and then I'd run back and try something else on..The happiness was overpowering when I was wearing something soft and pretty...I can't explain WHY, but it felt "right"...

Question 2 ....How long have you been dressing??? Ok guys...I've been dressing all my life....I wouldn't want to scare everone off my running around "nekkid"...LOL...Sorry..a bit of humor there...Well...Like I said...I've been Kendra most of my life...But I got "serious" in 1998....( but my first time out was halloween 97 in Houston )..I had decided on the name "Kendra" roughly back in 1985 or 86...One place I worked at had a very nice lady who was an "office manager" And she had a daughter...One day I was in the office tending to some "business" and this vision of beauty and femiminity walked in and up to the manager...It turned out to be her daughter..."Debbie" ( the office manager ) introduced her to me..."Kendra"..Oh my...She was absolutely gorgeous and a fun person to talk to...And from that moment on...I was Kendra...Sort of a tribute to someone who I wished I could be like...Beautiful...smart...and a VERY nice person to be around...Kendra always had a nice thing to say and a smile when we saw each other...I took her name in honor of all she was that is good about being a woman...

May 1998 I made the plunge into "womanhood"...Ok, that's a little overdramatic, but it was the first time I was able to really be "me"...I had met a GG in one of the TG chats and we hit it off good...We would spend hours in that chat terrorizing the other girls by finishing each others sentences from half way around the country...LOL...THAT really had people wondering if we weren't the same person...Well we weren't...Her name is Emaleigh and you can see some pics of her with me on some of my "Galleries"....She's described us as "identical twins born 11 years apart, by two different sets of parents and separated by quite a few miles"...She jokingly says "Kendra got the height, and I got the green eyes....That's the only way you can tell us apart"...Well...back to the story...I visited Emmy, May 98 and I only had a couple of outfits, two wigs, and a lot of desire...She helped me become me...I spent most of the time visiting her living as Kendra...and I thoroughly enjoyed myself... Over the next few years...I planned my vacation trips to the East Coast where Kendra could come out and live...You can see her "evolution" in my galleries...First a lady whos "tentative" first steps were a bit shakey, but as time went on, she got more and more confident with herself..( doing her own makeup, hair and nails..) Emmy was my "fashion consultant"...She tried very successfully to keep me looking like a "lady"...

Question 3....When you go out, do people know you aren't a "real woman"??? MY gosh I hope so...First thing is...I'm NOT a petite thing...I'm a very + sized girl...It's just that when I do my pictures, I try to have surroundings that don't give any reference in scale to me...Walls...Wide open spaces...Large trees and vegetation...( or in one case, I was feeding a giraffe at the zoo...LOL..)...I like to tell people that I'm 5'20" in heels....( and I always wear heels..) But I do get the occasion notice from people...( guys especially )...One instance, Emmy and I went to the Outer Banks in North Carolina...Kill Devil Hills...Kitty Hawk...We spent the entire day sightseeing and doing pics... ( I got a picture of me at the Wright Brothers Monument kissing Wilbur.....or was it Orville??? LOL )..After that, we jumped in the car and headed to Hatteras to take the ferry to Okracoke...( you'll see pics we took from the ferry ride. )..During the ride over to Okracoke..A guy was "checking me out" as he walked by...I have to admit I looked nice...I was wearing a nice short denim skirt and a gold blouse with my favorite 3" heels..The best part was...He was "busted" by his wife while he was checking me out...LOL..I tried not to laugh...but she walked by me a bit later and gave me a bit of a "Smile"...I'd have loved to have heard that conversation when they got home...."WHAT"???? "No way"..... "REALLY"??? "Damn!!!! She had some nice looking legs".. LOL.. I love causing a scandal..

Question 4....Do you consider yourself a "transvestite, crossdresser, or a transsexual"??? Actully I consider myself a "guy in a dress"...No more, no less...I just happen to get it "right" on occasion...The term "Transvestite" with some of us is a bit of a "slap"...It conjurs up images of crazed, psycho killers in movies...( Michael Caine in "Dressed to Kill" for one )..The least offensive is "Crossdresser"...And that could work if a description was needed of me...But like I said...I'm just a "guy in a dress"...And considering some of the emails and IM's I get...I must do pretty well at it...Transsexual??? That is a whole other discussion...Considering what TS girls go through in their lives...The doubt, the questions as to "Why", and then when they do begin transitioning, the ridicule for a lot of them...the loss of loved ones who can't understand them...the financial loss because of employers who would not "deal with it" and of course, the cost of the surgeries, hrt, and all the other necessities that go along with the journey that they MUST take..Yes...MUST...not want to...A lot of TS girls MUST transition or they won't want to continue to go on living in the wrong body....I don't envy them for their choice...But I understand their need to take that journey, And they are far braver than I ever could...Do I ever see myself transitioning??? No...Not at this point in my life...It's definitely a big decision to make and as of this time in my life...I'm still happy being that "guy in a dress"...But who knows about the future...

Question 5....Does your family know about Kendra???...Oh no way!!!...Y'all have to remember one thing....A lot of parents would rather have their son be a piano player in a whore house than be a A "T girl".... ( Ok lets keep that "tag" from now on...it's a lot easier to remember and a LOT less offensive to us..) ..And that brings me to an instance where I nearly got "caught"....( Well truth be told...I DID get caught...just not ALL the way ) I was a teenager and it was summer vacation....Again, both parents worked...and I was about the same size as my mother...( you seeing a pattern emerge here??? LOL.. )..Well...One day I was home alone again..Both parents working...and moms closet was calling me...Hmmmmm...Lets see what I can find...{;o) Mom had a couple of wigs that she wore on occasion so she didn't have to mess with her hair...And I found some really pretty dresses in the back of the closet..( you seeing where this is going?? ) Well..lets just say...Kendra was in her full glory...And I was loving it..( Sans makeup )..I did my own little fashion show and would make wardrobe changes...Then all of a sudden...I heard a car door slam....Oh S**T!!! My dad came home for lunch...I was paniced...He couldn't see me like this!!! So I ducked into the closet, and began to get out of the clothes as fast as I could, and throwing them into the back...For some strange reason, he came in the house and walked right into the bedroom, and there I stood in my "Fruit of the Looms"...I thought I got away with it...NOPE!!!...In my haste...I STILL had the wig I was wearing on my head...DOH!!!! He looked at me like I had grown a second head, and asked me "What are you doing"??? I mumbled something incoherant and he just shook his head and walked off...I never heard of it again...I was standing there shaking like a leaf..If I hadn't been quite as fast or I hadn't heard the car door...He would have met Kendra in her full glory...I still get chills sitting here and writing that one down...**Brrr**

Question 6....Do you date men??? Well...Right now in my life, I don't date much at all...Those who frequent my home page will notice that other than a few "minor" updates....Nothing major has happened in several years....Ahhh yes..."real life" has caught up to me...I keep hearing "When"??? I really wish I could give an answer to that...But lately between work and sleep...Not much time is left over...Now...IF there are some available millionaires out there, I'd be willing to make an appearance....Maybe hang around for him...LOL...( I have a wedding dress already...LOL...)..Hopefully, Kendra will be able to at least do some new pics in the near future...I really do miss the "Ooooo's and Ahhhhh's I get from my loyal fans...

Question 7....Do you have any naked pics??? OK, I invariably get asked this one wayyyyy too many times..So....Yes.. I did some "naked" pics and posted them...Now before y'all go Google "Kendra's naked pics"...I'll tell you about them...I had just finished doing my very first lingerie set...Most of you know and loved those pics...And I was trying to do some "finish up the memory card" pics...you know those...when you have enough space on the digital camera card for maybe 3 pics...Well...that's what I did...I took off everything but my hair, makeup, and a pair of earrings and ran a "bubblebath"....LOL...Gotcha all...LOL....Hey..I was naked under all the bubbles...So I DID have naked pics up...{:o)

Question 8....What was the "craziest" thing Kendra has ever done??? Well..think about it..I get dressed up as a ( somewhat sexy ) woman and go out and about..That's as about as crazy as it gets right there...LOL...Well,I'll give y'all some insight to as what Kendra does when she's bored, or wants to generally mess up someones mind...{:o).. There are times when I'll be going out to do some pics with my friend, Emmy..She'll be driving and of course I got "shotgun"...I think y'all know what's coming...How many of you guys riding in those big rigs or even a "built 4X4" went cruising down the interstate only to pass a car and look down and see a pretty girl with her skirt hiked up???? Well..Y'all have to be careful, because it just might be me...LOL..Also as some of you know...I'm on occasion rather "well endowed" in the..... hmmmmmm...how can I put this???? ummmm.... Oh the heck with it...My boobs!!!!Yes...I do flaunt them if I find that a trucker has been running along side me for more than 5 miles...Although I haven't "flashed" anyone yet... YET!!!!....LOL..

Ok...Here's something not quite so devious I've done...I'll be going along in a really cute outfit...( one instance after I had a makeover in Houston in August 99 )...I was wearing a nice short, tight black skirt...A white sleevless blouse and a green lightweight jacket??? ( not really a jacket...but it's a top..) You'll know the pics if you see it...At the "shoot" I wore blonde hair with that outfit..It was an ok look...but I wasn't too overwhelmed about it...As it turned out...that was the last outfit of the shoot....And Emmy ( my partner in crime during a LOT of my excursions ) and I had decided to go shopping afterwards...Ahhhhhhhh, Shopping a girls favorite past time...LOL...Well..We left the shoot and I was still in the said "green jacket" outfit with the blonde hair..We'd stopped at a convenience store and Emmy decided to get us a couple of drinks...( August in Houston...it was 106 that day..Talk about learning "damage control" on ones makeup...LOL)..I was waiting in the car...Then a gentleman pulled up and parked in the spot next to me...He glanced over and smiled at me as he got out of his car... Heh...heh...heh... I reached in the back and looked in the bag I had, and found the hair I had wanted to do the last set of pics with..My favorite long curly ,auburn, and I proceeded to make an "Accessory" change...I had also put on my glasses...{:o) Yep...you guessed it..That gentleman who parked next to me came out ahead of Emmy and walked my way towards his car..I was just finishing up running my fingers through my hair, and touching up my lipstick when he looked over after he sat down...and did a "doubletake"...he wasn't too sure...yeah..it was the same car I was sitting in....And HE was in the right car...but that "blonde" wasn't there anymore...But a cute redhead was....LOL...He gave a puzzled "raised eyebrow", and then started his car and pulled away...I held my laughter till after he left...Emmy wanted to know what was so funny...And I told her...We cracked up for a couple of minutes and went about to our shopping...

"Said outfit"...LOL...
Funny thing about this pic..There was a guy sitting on a bench just out of frame to my right...He didn't give me a second look....Hmmm..I guess he sees 5'20" women every day...LOL

Question 9....What do you look for in a guy??? Well.."Hypothetically", IF I were looking for a guy to spend time with...Friends or something more...He would have to first and formost be a "gentleman"...I'm sorry..but I'm and old fashioned girl...( for a "guy in a dress"...LOL ) I'd like someone that treats his woman with respect, is caring, and attentive...My idea of a gentleman is...someone who opens the door for his lady....Who helps her out of the car...Who holds the chair for her when she sits....who helps her with her coat when going out..who holds the umbrella over her as to not let the rain ruin her hair and makeup...and finally...and I think most importantly, lets her know that SHE is the most important person to him wherever they happen to be...I mean no sitting in a resturant and checking out other women as they walk by...A gentleman who looks INTO her eyes when they talk and is completely attentive to her and the conversation they may be having... ( Oh yeah, and being a GREAT kisser is a definite plus....***wink*** )...THAT would be the kind of man I would be looking for..."Hypothetically"...LOL

Oh BTW...It wouldn't hurt if he happens to be a millionaire...LOL...Hey...keeping a t girl in hair, makeup and fine clothes takes a LOT of $$,$$$...I'm not lying about that...{:o)

Question 10....Where does Kendra see herself in 10 years??? Gosh...I don't know about that...10 years ago, I would have never thought of dressing up and going out shopping for clothes and makeup...But then again...I also never thought I'd have had the nerve to put up a home page with "Lingerie" pics of me that evidentally have guys "drooling" over me..**wink**...That Halloween when I first got dressed up...made up ,slipped into some nice heels...and took those first steps out into the "real world as Kendra...I asked myself..."Why did I wait so long"???And now...10 years have passed...I wish I'd started dressing "seriously" in my teens...Hindsight is 20/20...If I had back then...Who knows? I might have felt the need to transition and eventually done so and gotten married to a wonderful man like any other woman would....But I waited ..and waited...and waited...All those wasted years..... {:o(

I did take full advantage of being Kendra for the years since that first night...but like I said earlier, "real life" had taken hold of Kendra and stuck her in hibernation in the closet again...But she's still here...in my mind..and in heart...She is me...And I am her...And I love her...The last thing I will ever do is "kill her"...Nope...that will never happen...I know she hasn't been out and about in the recent past...but hopefully that will change again...and Kendra will have the feeling of the breeze blowing on her stockinged legs again....10 years from now??? I'd hope that Kendra will be more of a part of everyday life than she has been allowed to recently...I certainly hope she will....She's a nice lady and hopefully some of you will still hold an interest in her....


A matter of Evolution....I have a couple of pics I'd like to put up here showing somewhat the "evolution" of Kendra....

This is the very first pic of Kendra ever put on the internet..This was from May 1998 when I first visited Emmy...She told me that I looked "natural" and relaxed...even when we went out and did pictures around town..

And this one was back in December 01...



This is what came to be famous and my "Lady Realtor" look...And from the comments I've recieved...It's one of the most popular pics..( outside from my lingerie sets )...This is where I had basically done everything myself..hair, makeup and outfit...A far cry from the prior one...but an vast improvement in my look and my attitude when I go out...I also kept the same hair color in that one... I even made a business card for a "Realty Company" here in Austin...And included my name, email, work, and Cell phone #'s....Funny thing is...People didn't really look closely at the phone#'s...I had recieved several emails asking me if that number was correct...Evidently more then a few gentleman have tried to call and see if I could sell them a house, or at least if they could take me out to dinner....Poor guys...They didn't really "see" the phone #'s...You see, I put a "555" number on the card...ROFL..I guess love...( or at least lust ) is blind... And finally for those of you who prefer me as a blonde...



This is one of my favorite pics...The hair is a bit different from what I usually wear...again..A lot of you liked it...The makeup I've been told was excellent...Thanks to everyone who offered positive comments on that, it really means a LOT to me...Thank you everyone...



I hope that this page has given everyone some insight as to "Who" Kendra is, was, and hopefully will continue to be...This is just a representation of some of the MOST asked questions..I'm sorry if I hadn't answered all of the questions I've been asked..( There isn't enough web space for that...LOL )...If any of you out there have any questions for me...Please don't hesitate to touch the lips below and send me an email...{:o) That's why I put it there...

I'd like to thank everyone who has stopped by my home page and has taken the time to show an interest in me and my home page...I have a "very select" few that I've communicated regularly over the years ( in email and IM's )...Those are people who "know" and still treat me and think of me as a lady....Thank you Scott, Tom, Jim and Jenni,and of course Emmy... Love y'all..



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